Kathleen Pickering is an award-winning author with more than just a story to tell. Her goal as a writer is to inspire readers in every aspect of their lives. She is a member of
Romance Writers of America,
Mystery Writers of America, and
Thriller Writers. When not writing, Kathleen conducts workshops on writing and assists colleagues with their conferences and workshop presentations.
What was your path towards publication like?
Rocky, at best. I began in an environment where the only one sharing my dream, was me. Unfortunately, the confidence I lacked at an early age stayed with me as I swam against the tide of criticisms and rejections as an adult. Let’s just say, I beached my writing intentions for way too long before the unquenchable urge to write set me afloat once more. (I’m a boater, can you tell?)
While I was constantly writing during my quiet years, I treated it as a hobby . . . or worse, a secret escape from the mundane realities lapping at my world. Don’t get me wrong. I have lived a wonderful life, raising my now-grown, and on their own, sons and married to my husband of thirty-something years. But, anything that was not writing seemed mundane to me.
Sadly to say, not even with my first sale, or winning awards for my works, did my confidence return. It was not until the past five years when I realized (at my ripe age!) that I am the only one who really matters in the decisions of my future. So, I stopped pleasing the people around me, which confused and irritated many!
However, I’m back on track, attending conferences, submitting to publishers, making friends with fabulous authors. I’ve landed an agent, and in the meantime, am putting my works on Kindle because, damn it all, it takes too long to get read and ultimately, rejected, by the publishing houses. Today’s new technology has opened doors to publishing that didn’t exist back when I began writing.
What was the first market you queried?
The first market I queried was the romance industry. I sent
GODLEN DAGGER (historical romance) to Harlequin. They had it for 9 months before finally rejecting it. I chose (and still choose) romance writing because I believe it is LOVE that fuels mankind’s motives above and beyond all else—even if it’s a love of power and/or money! I love reading and watching romance stories and will always include a romance, even as a secondary plot, in all of my stories. Love is the fiber that binds us all. I can’t imagine ignoring it.
What was your biggest obstacle when it comes to pitching yourself to the media and what steps have you taken to overcome that obstacle?
That confidence issue comes back to haunt me so I don’t do pitch sessions well. I choke up and can’t describe the story in those few precious lines that are required in pitch sessions.
I have overcome this obstacle by keeping myself available for networking opportunities, i.e., meeting editors and agents at conferences, workshops, in bars or at parties. I find it much easier to talk about myself and my work in a casual situation than in that “spotlight” moment of a one-on-one interview. I have gotten more requests to see work through casual conversations than pitching.
Other than book contracts and magazine articles, how can writers make writing?
The first answer that springs to mind, for me, is to establish yourself as an expert in some form of the writing world and present workshops at conferences or conduct on-line classes.
I am in the process of working with other authors creating “how to” videos for beginning writers. Also, if you have a craft you can share (I have marketing tips and vision-creating workshops to keep focused as a writer), money can be made offering on-line classes through various organizations. One, for example, is Romance Writers of America (www.rwa.org). They have hundreds of chapters, many of which offer on-line classes and are looking for teachers.
Can you tell us a little bit about your latest book?
I’m very excited about my urban fantasy,
MYTHOLGOICAL SAM. This book, “
The Call
,” is the first of a comical, demon-busting trilogy of man vs. Lucifer. The premise had divine inspiration for me. (I’m embarrassed to mention it, really, but the vision Sam has as a boy in the book’s prologue actually happened to me as a 24 year old woman in a Catholic church. This is the first time I’m saying this out loud.) I’ve been puzzling for thirty years over what I should do with the information I um . . . inherited . . . from that moment. Just two years ago, Sam Wilson emerged as my character and the story has practically been writing itself. This will be a trilogy that ends with man’s ultimate triumph against himself (Ego versus spirit) told with humor and a boat-load of imagination and fun.
If you could choose just one thing for your book to accomplish, what would it be?
Dare I answer this? My one wish to accomplish from this book is that the reader, by the time he/she is finished, will begin to think with his/her spirit instead of his/her mind.
Harry Potter takes readers deep into the dark side of the soul. I want to lift everyone into the light. Maybe Sam Wilson can help make this world a better place for us all.
How do you balance your life as a writer with the real world?
I did such a lousy job over the past 25 years, in supporting my writing life, that now it really has all my focus. My sons are grown and living their wonderful lives which has freed up my focus completely. My husband now understands the give-and-take of honoring each other’s needs and supports me in every way possible to achieve my goal as a professional author. He, too, has his passion which is astronomy. Now with our free time, he goes star gazing all over the country (and the world) and I attend my writing conferences. Our relationship is solid enough that we can go our separate ways and return to share our adventures.
As for the day job. I’m lucky to work from home. I split my day: Writing from 6 am to 11:30 am. Work: 1pm to 5 pm. If this gets altered, I make up the writing time as needed.
Do you have any advice for writers?
Most precious? Honor and protect your calling. If you even think you should write, well then, you’re a writer. We all have our talents and reasons for being on this earth. Don’t deprive the world of your talents—your stories.
Make the time to write/research—no matter how often—just be consistent. Realize if you write one page a day, you’ll have a book in a year. If you can recruit the folks in your life to support your dream, all the power to you. If you cannot, just know your dream is all you need. Write. Period. And, never give up.
What is your best advice for getting past writer's block?
Research! Writer’s block comes for me because I don’t have enough information on my subject. Once I immerse myself in more information, new ideas emerge and I’m back to writing.
What is the best writing advice you have ever received and how has it helped?
As keynote speaker at a Florida Romance Writers conference, mega-author, Christina Dodd, said (and I paraphrase), “All writers have that road to publication outside their door. The beautiful thing about that path is that you can step onto it, or step off it, at any time. The road will always be there.”
This has helped me because I realized that it’s never too late to achieve your dream—as a writer or whatever it may be. It does no good to criticize myself for wasting time all these years in achieving my personal goals as an author. Those years weren’t wasted. I did other amazing things, like raise kids, love a man and make friends for life. Now that my time is more or less my own, I’m not only stepping on the path, I’m running full speed wearing high-tech sneakers. I’d take my Ferrari (if I had one!), but I don’t want to miss a thing along the way!
What is the single-most career killer for an author?
Being a pompous ass. Success as an author is a huge responsibility. It doesn’t make you royalty, more important, or entitled. It makes you a success at your craft; someone to be emulated.
An author should be as excited and generous with his/her achievements as are their family, friends and fans. There is enough success to go around for everyone. If an author becomes self-important and rude, it kills good will from readers, other authors and ultimately, publishers and agents. No one wants to spend their good money and time on a difficult personality.
What is ahead for your writing?
Well, book two and three of MYTH SAM. I’m hoping to spend time in Hawaii where I’ll set the final book. It’s tricky writing this trilogy as I don’t want to preach and yet want to make a marvelous call to adventure to which everyone can relate. So, I’m up for the challenge and loving it!
I’m also working on a Time Travel romance for a woman cursed in love who happens to live in my home town of Amityville, NY. Amityville has received enough attention as a horror. (Halloween in Amityville is a nightmare. Tourists arrive by the bus load!) I’m going to give the friendly Bay Village a love story!
Visit Kathleen Pickering at http://www.kathleenpickering.com/ or read her blog at http://killzoneauthors.blogspot.com/
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